So, you’ve met a great girl and decided to ask for her email address instead of her number. A day or two later you email her to let her know you had a great time with her and would love to see her again.
Now for the painful part: You wait. And wait. And wait.
Yet you don’t get a reply from her. What do you do? Email her again? Sure, she is probably very busy and just hasn’t had time to write back to you; or she meant to write back to you, but simply forgot. But what if she got your email, read it, and decided not to write back to you for any number of reasons. How do you know for sure, and how to do make sure you don’t get lost to her forever.
At this point, it is crucial to be very methodical about how you proceed. If she was interested in you, and wanted to see you again, you need to make sure you don’t let off any vibes that you might be some kind of a “creep stalker”. And if she didn’t plan on writing back to you, it’s always best to go out on a high-note.
So what should you do?
- Make SURE she got your email. A number of web-based email clients let you see if she received your message. Microsoft Outlook even has a feature that requests will send you a receipt when she clicks on your email. If this is the kind of girl who rarely ever checks her personal email, it is possible she just hasn’t gotten to it yet
- If you can see that she has in fact received your email and has not written back, you have ONE chance at this point to regain her attention and interest. While she may have been completely in to you when you first met, the longer she has gone without talking to you, the less interested she will become. Your best bet is to send her a short email inviting her to an informal event happening that week.
Hey,
I just wanted to say I had a great time with you the other night. I remember you mentioning that you really like red wine, and am writing to invite you to this wine tasting even on Thursday night. Let me know if you’d like to join me.
Hope all is well,
At this point the ball is completely in her court. If she responds to you (even to thank you for the invite, and decline it), then you are in great shape, but if she once again leaves to high and dry, it’s time to move on.
Sorry, but you can’t win 100% of the time. But like I said, it’s best to go out on a high note when you have to.
Until next time,
Josh
The Pandora’s Box
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